Rumor Mill On The Gossip Path To Bullying

Hello Gorgeous People,

I hope you are having a wonderful and beautiful day. I hope you are setting goals and going after them. Have faith and push forward with courage. I am going  to tackle sensitive and enlightening topics today. Rumors, Gossip, and Bullying.

I don't like bullying I was bullied alot in my past and sometimes now in adulthood. That may be the reason I hate rude disrespectful people.  It is the main reason I want to own my my own business so I can be my own boss. I will not tolerate bullying from employees on one another or disrespectful  rude in the office or toward me for that matter. This rule will be above all others in whatever business I decide to open. I was even bullied by people who I thought were my friends that's why I don't trust people worth a grain of salt and these days you can't afford to trust anyone completely. I fought every year up to seventh grade and I made a promise to myself I will not fight or result to violence unless absolutely necessary. I will use words to solve my battles. So,  far I haven't  had to use violence except once or twice since then and I am 26 years old. Increasing your wisdom will take you farther than becoming a victim or spreading rumors/gossips.

One thing it did help me with is book writing and becoming a stronger person. I had false rumors spread about me because they were either jealous or just didn't like me, or whatever reason I cannot think of. People that are being bullied ignore the bullies every misguided wrong that is turned toward you there is a thousand more turned toward them they are just using misdirection, so eyes will be on you instead of them. Remember the problem is not with you it's with them.

Victims: Ignore the false rumors you know who you are and what kind of person you are. Bullies tend to  do things because they can't tackle their own inner turmoils so they attack someone they believe to be weaker than them. They fear you because you choose to be ok with who you are; flaws and all and some people cannot handle that. For them it is to easier be a follower or dominate others. You have the power within you to be brave in the face of adversity and move forward with courage you are stronger than you know the moment   you realize that everything changes.  When you give in and believe someone else's false thoughts of you is when you become what they say you are. Don't believe in anything they say believe what you know you are and the person you want to be. Love and treasure yourself because no one else will.

Bullies: Being a bully will not solve your problems. Find the cause of the real reason you are angry, bitter, jealous, fearful, or feel the need to dominate others.  There is anger behind the anger that's on the surface. You shouldn't be happy by making others feel less than you or hurting other people. These are just symptoms of the real problem. Once you find the cause that will be the first step in a positive direction for your life because new peaceful solutions will begin to open up to you, so you want spread your negativity to others. You have the power within you to transform your being into a decent humble human being. You just have be willing to change and take the first step in a positive direction and once you find the source of your anger tell them the best way you know how. You will begin to see better path than the one you have lead up until now.

***excerpt from Lyrical Heart***

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Bonsoir Lovely People,

I hope everyone is doing well and having a great day!! It's Bloggin' Friday! Friday Is My Official Blog Day!

What are the views on teens having sex? Do you feel sex is a big deal? Why or Why Not? Tell Me Your Thought  On A Much Talked About Topic....


Hmmm.....well let's see were do I began with such a loaded topic. The traditional  side of me feels that an individual shouldn't have sex before marriage weather they are teenager or not. The reason I say this  is because sex is a very intimate thing and shouldn't be done lightly. It was originally created for to show love between husband and wife(soul mates) in this life and reproduction to bring forth the next generation, train  them  good productive citizen of  society living out there purpose and having a life full of happiness and have the wisdom that is passed down generation to generation. Sex is one the many pleasures in life that can have very bad  consequences.  For example,  unprotected sex can lead to STDs, pregnancy, emotional instability, emotional intent behind it. However if you're going to do it  anyway think before you act is the motto for this post.

 Young Ladies:

 * There is not wrong with having a baby, but if you cannot take care of the baby  and you know their is a possibility that the father will not stay in the picture to help raise it and/ or you cannot raise it yourself  or that you may have to give up the baby for adoption then  you should not be laying down with a man with the intent to have a baby or with the full knowledge knowing very well that coming up pregnant is a possibility. THINK BEFORE YOU ACT!  If you think that laying down with the guy will make him love you it will not.  If he didn't love you before he will not love you after. If you think that having a baby you will get the love you want and need. Yes you  will bring a human being in this world that will love you, but love comes from within love yourself first. The Creator will always love you. Know that you are a person worthy of love and the Heavenly Father created you will love and purpose in mind. Condoms are not 100% & neither is birth control safe sex is no sex at least until you are absolutely sure and no that your partner has no STDs/AIDS and will only be committed to you and if he will not you are stable enough to take care of a child own your on and you have not caught anything from him. Don't go around sleeping with guys to find love you will not find it there. Don't act on a 'feeling' decisions that is irreversible and doesn't could turn your life upside down. Educate your self in the decision before making it because the consequences effect your life and others. Love yourself first.

Young Men:

*THINK BEFORE YOU ACT.  If you will not willing to commit to the woman/ young lady don't have sex with her. If you cannot be head of house hold and/or equally stable with the intent you plan to sleep with her, do not have sex with her. If you know a woman is sleeping around yet you wanna shot at her to so you can be cool with the rest of fellas. Answer me this do you want to catch something from her. Are you responsible and stable enough on your own  to have a child?  Can you afford child support if you don't want to stay with her and end up being required of you? Is your ego boost worth that much to you? What does sex mean to you? How do you really feel? Are you willing to make  a 'gamble' that may deal you a new set of  cards from the deck of life. Don't Roll The Dice If You Can't Play! Don't act on a 'feelings'/urges which leads to decisions that are irreversible and  could turn your life upside down. Educate your self in the decision before making it because the consequences effect your life and others. Love yourself first.

Sex is not a game, but in today's society it treated as such. Be prepared for life altering consequence. Read the fine print and the instruction manual carefully.


TTYF

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P.S. * I will say this I will not tolerate  any disrespect or negativity you take  to your own butt and shove it!! I have a very short fuse when it comes to rudeness and disrespect! If  you don't have manners or respect you better find some quick I tend to avoid rude & disrespectful people like they don't exist.*

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