Addressing Grievances

Hello Lovely People,

I hope all is well.  I hope everyone is going after their dreams. I am rooting for you never doubt that. the past three weeks have been a bit of an emotional roller coaster. Dealing with the fears that are inside of me about my writing, to dealing with people who think I don't work hard and just want attention, to reminiscing about my first love that I miss often some days/weeks more than others, and rumors about me smoking or similar rumors. So I would like to address it a calm and rational matter.

Addressing Grievances

• I am  a mean, aggressive person: For could portion of my life I have been shy I am just now coming out of my shell a little bit in adulthood. I am nice and kind, but I do have a bad temper and I tend to cut people with my words when they piss me off. If you don't want to see that side of me then be nice, kind, and respectful. I do not like messy, two-face, disrespectful, rude, or jealous people; to that end those types actually annoy the hell out of me.

• I work hard some people even know me as a workaholic. Now I do take 2-3 days to recharge relax, and de-stress. that is my business. I do what I want to that end, but when it comes to my dreams I work hard despite all the obstacles that appeared before me. I pace myself and go step by step plan for my long-term goals and dreams for the most part because I have several I started with writing and soon I will work in my acting. I do not seek attention never have unless it's from my boyfriend when I have one, but I am currently single. If it seems like it to you that's your on conceive notion in your head if people gravitate toward me because I'm being myself that is ok that happens when people be themselves the right people like them/personality. With that being said maybe you need a reality check.

• I have never smoked a day in my life. I hate being around it inhaling the fumes I either start coughing or it messes with my sinuses.

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The reason why I didn't like being social was because of mean people and the dumb shit I have to put up with now, but I know that this shit will comes with the territory especially in the literary and in the entertainment industry. In actuality I would not mind being social if people were nice...not fake about really nice & kind people. I may have to deal with the stupidity of mean people because it comes with the territory and I know that as a person gets more successful you will have to deal with people hating you for no specific reason, people assuming shit, people that like to spread  false rumors because they don't like you, and people that enjoy gossiping about you, but I will not entertain it. Think what you want about me, but I know who I am and will always be myself.

So if you are not a nice and positive person and you have jealousy or ego issues leave me alone. If you are not a not a supportive person leave me alone because the fake sincerity and fake support its getting on my nerves. If you don't have good intentions toward me leave me alone because frankly I am tired of the BS.


Later Peeps,

TTYS (Talk to you soon)

💜 R

Rumor Mill On The Gossip Path To Bullying

Hello Gorgeous People,

I hope you are having a wonderful and beautiful day. I hope you are setting goals and going after them. Have faith and push forward with courage. I am going  to tackle sensitive and enlightening topics today. Rumors, Gossip, and Bullying.

I don't like bullying I was bullied alot in my past and sometimes now in adulthood. That may be the reason I hate rude disrespectful people.  It is the main reason I want to own my my own business so I can be my own boss. I will not tolerate bullying from employees on one another or disrespectful  rude in the office or toward me for that matter. This rule will be above all others in whatever business I decide to open. I was even bullied by people who I thought were my friends that's why I don't trust people worth a grain of salt and these days you can't afford to trust anyone completely. I fought every year up to seventh grade and I made a promise to myself I will not fight or result to violence unless absolutely necessary. I will use words to solve my battles. So,  far I haven't  had to use violence except once or twice since then and I am 26 years old. Increasing your wisdom will take you farther than becoming a victim or spreading rumors/gossips.

One thing it did help me with is book writing and becoming a stronger person. I had false rumors spread about me because they were either jealous or just didn't like me, or whatever reason I cannot think of. People that are being bullied ignore the bullies every misguided wrong that is turned toward you there is a thousand more turned toward them they are just using misdirection, so eyes will be on you instead of them. Remember the problem is not with you it's with them.

Victims: Ignore the false rumors you know who you are and what kind of person you are. Bullies tend to  do things because they can't tackle their own inner turmoils so they attack someone they believe to be weaker than them. They fear you because you choose to be ok with who you are; flaws and all and some people cannot handle that. For them it is to easier be a follower or dominate others. You have the power within you to be brave in the face of adversity and move forward with courage you are stronger than you know the moment   you realize that everything changes.  When you give in and believe someone else's false thoughts of you is when you become what they say you are. Don't believe in anything they say believe what you know you are and the person you want to be. Love and treasure yourself because no one else will.

Bullies: Being a bully will not solve your problems. Find the cause of the real reason you are angry, bitter, jealous, fearful, or feel the need to dominate others.  There is anger behind the anger that's on the surface. You shouldn't be happy by making others feel less than you or hurting other people. These are just symptoms of the real problem. Once you find the cause that will be the first step in a positive direction for your life because new peaceful solutions will begin to open up to you, so you want spread your negativity to others. You have the power within you to transform your being into a decent humble human being. You just have be willing to change and take the first step in a positive direction and once you find the source of your anger tell them the best way you know how. You will begin to see better path than the one you have lead up until now.

***excerpt from Lyrical Heart***

XoXo,

TTYF

💜R